Love as an addiction

When love is an addiction it’s purpose becomes about filling the hollowness within ourselves with the love and affection of another.

“If he loves me it means I’m ok,

I’m worthy of being loved.”

“If she sees goodness in me I can finally believe it about myself.

I know I am worthy because she wants me.”

However, the relief from feeling our own emptiness lasts but briefly and almost as quickly becomes replaced by dread. An all- consuming need to hold onto that Other becomes our fixation as we have fixed our own worth of being to this unwitting otherbeing.

Now we suffer that we might someday lose them and then thus lose our worth yet again because clearly it needs to be validated by someone outside of our self.

((The small self does not realize it has the power to validate it’s Self))

Wake up. Awaken from this dark slumber that causes you to think that your worth exists outside of you. 

YOU ARE THE VALIDATION YOU SEEK.

The very act of being alive your personal permit to your own Rightness of Being. The fact that you exist equates to you being worthy.  It is your Birthright. The Universe called you into be-ing out of no-thing…

Dear One, what more validation do you need?